Personal Post: {F & E's}

I was having a debate with someone over how many women a man should talk to at one time, and i feel like its his prerogative to talk to as many women as feel. And the person retaliated with "you wouldn't like it done to you". While this is true who am i to be upset over who a man talks to if he is not in a relationship? why would i be the only? the point of being single to play the Field for who may be right for you, or to just simply fill your time with as many people as you choose.

After that, the rebuttal was that at a point i was upset at a certain person when i found out that i hadn't been the only person. While this is true, it doesn't mean that i don't recognize where i had went wrong.

I can not recall a time in my "single life" when I haven't talked to more than one person at a time, not matter what phase of the relationship, because i never wanna be stuck alone should one go awry.

Sometimes I get so caught up into myself that i become oblivious to the fact that the same people i talk to, may have other people they talk to. In my mind I think I'm a perfect catch, why would anyone want another? there is no need right? ..Wrong...she may do for him what i will not at that time, she may be a totally different type of woman, one may never know. A little dose of reality hurt my little feelings, but that's life, I'm over it...it did taint the image of that person, for lack of better word but not because he talks to another, or others,but the situation just gave me a realization. *shrugs*

Now a whole different situation is if he tells you, you are the only and you are one of many. There is no need to lie, a person either has to deal with it, or move on. I may not always be bold, or whatever the case may be, but if I'm asked a question i am truthful, because 1. I am a horrible liar, & 2. I don't want to lie to a "potential" and we begin our relationship, built on lies.

What are your thoughts?